25 Lessons at 25 that might be useful to you. 

Yesterday I turned 25. These are the insights I’ve gathered along the way—not final truths, but temporary lanterns for the road. I may outgrow them, revise them, or abandon them entirely. But for now, they feel real, and perhaps they will be useful to you, too.

1. Be careful what you aim at. cause you will eventually get what you aim at. Aim with care. Life has a strange loyalty to our intentions; what we consistently move toward begins to move toward us.
2. Everything feels abundant until you confront the finiteness of time. the only limited thing is TIME. Secure your time anyhow. Analysis your AIM & manage your time accordingly cause nobody will give your time as value as yours. Guard it the way a sage guards his silence.
3. Reading book can be your competitive advantage. This worked for me very well. You can download a person entire lifers experience in exchange with some couple of Bucks , how amazing is that. 
4. People see the surface before they ever reach the substance. Your “cover” is not everything—but it shapes the entry point.so why not be selfish!
5. Distinguish reality from fiction, and fiction from myth. Much confusion in life comes from mixing these categories.(very very important).
6. Where you live is the most important decision that you will take in your life. it is not geography—it is destiny.
7. 5 chimp theory is real. You become a quiet echo of the people around you. Choose those echoes with intention.
8. Most People can’t take decision & stick to it .Many people drift because decision-making feels heavier than delay. The weight of a decision is also the weight of a life.
9. Independent thinking is rare because it costs comfort.
10. Love and friendship cannot be negotiated or forced; they arrive freely or not at all.
11. Life tends to give you not what you wish for but what you grow to deserve.
12. Priorities shape the architecture of your days, and eventually, the architecture of your being.
13. Trust no statement blindly. All truth is contextual, and context is often invisible.
14. Some things—books, people, causes—are simply not worth the currency of your time. Let them fall away.
15. The deepest difference between the poor and the rich is not money but the scope of their vision.
16. Be careful with your words. Stop uttering words that you don’t mean & still if you do it then don’t be shocked or amazed  when you will find yourself sorrunded by superficialities & lies. 
17. The pursuit of truth is slow, but it never betrays the seeker.
18. Human behavior is ancient—it is the sum of millions of years of memory. Changing yourself requires patience with your own biology.
19. Train your intuition to recognize what is good for you. A disciplined instinct becomes a compass more reliable than reason alone.
20. Your now life situation is the work you did/decision you took 5 years ago & now what are you doing will show results after 5 years. So make a 5 year plan . 
21. Your body is shaped by what you eat. Your mind is shaped by what you allow to touch it.
22. Understanding human behavior is like knowing the grammar of existence—it helps everywhere.
23. Fiction often reveals truths that reality keeps hidden beneath politeness and habit.
24. The human body contains untold potential. Explore it; it is your first home.
25. People learn how to treat you by watching how you treat yourself.

take care , see you in next post ……….