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Human Behaviour Lesson from reading Dostoevsky (Part 8)
Reading Time: 8 minutesThis is part 8, guys. Today I wanna share Dostoevsky’s secret love story- In Dostoevsky’s biography: A Writer in His Time by Joseph Frank, we learn that Dostoevsky was married twice—first to Maria and then to Anna. Maria was chronically ill and eventually passed away. Later, when Dostoevsky was in his 40s, a 21-year-old woman named Polina entered his life. She was a short story writer and a women’s rights activist. Polina expected attention and affection from Dostoevsky, but according to her, he didn’t reciprocate as she hoped. At the time, Dostoevsky was already married and burdened with responsibilities. Moreover, he suffered from epilepsy, which affected both…
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Human Behaviour Lesson from reading Dostoevsky (Part 7)
Reading Time: 6 minutesThis is part 7 of this series. I want to sum up all the points in around 10 parts. I know it can’t be covered, but I will try my best. One disclaimer: this series is nothing compared to someone who has read these books. Even if you read one book, that’s also a huge deal. Even after reading this post, if you become interested in Dovstosky. I would be delighted. Today I will start with one of Dovtovsky’s love stories. So without any further ado, let’s get started – Movies and romantic novels often tell us that love is the most sacred thing in the world…
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Human Behaviour Lesson after reading Dostoevsky (Part 6)
Reading Time: 7 minutesHey guys, we’re at part 6. Come a long way- Did you know Dostoevsky hated intellectuals? not all, but the detached ones. Now you might ask, “Wait — wasn’t Dostoevsky himself an intellectual?” Yes. And that, my friend, is exactly why. He understood the psyche and suffering of intellectuals so deeply — he ended up despising them. Intellectuals: Merchants of Ideas. In his worldview, intellectuals are merchants of ideas. They sell ideas, often detached from lived experience. In his novels, most protagonists were intellectuals who rationalized horror: Raskolnikov, in Crime and Punishment, commits murder based on a “higher idea.” Verkhovensky, in Demons, leads a revolution with abstract…
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Human Behaviour Lesson after reading Dostoevsky (Part 5)
Reading Time: 7 minutesHi guys, this is the 5th part in this series. Hope you are enjoying this. It’s often said that writers are products of their time — shaped by their economic conditions, socio-political climate, and their country’s past. Just like psychology teaches us, it’s always nature and nurture. Dostoevsky was no exception. Today, before going to the main part, I would like to talk about the socio-economic situation during dovstosky. In the 1860s, after returning from Siberian prison, Dostoevsky started a magazine called “Time” with his brother. A tireless writer, he often wrote deep into the night — like Gabriel García Márquez, who wrote One Hundred Years of…
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Human Behaviour Lesson after reading Dostoevsky (Part 4)
Reading Time: 7 minutesHello guys, this is part 4 of this series. How many parts in this series will I do? I have no clue! In the last post, I talked about the brothers Karmasov. If you haven’t checked part 3, go ahead & read it. Before putting this forward, I need to give you some background on Dostoevsky. Without it, you will feel alienated. In Dovstosky’s novel, there’s almost always one character who becomes loud, emotional, or chaotic after drinking, often creating a scene — whether at a dinner table, a tavern, or a family gathering. This isn’t accidental. Dostoevsky uses these drunk characters to reveal deeper psychological truths,…
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Human Behaviour Lesson after reading Dostoevsky (Part 3)
Reading Time: 7 minutesHi guys, this is part 3 of the 10-part series on human behaviour from Dostoevsky. This one is mainly from my favorite”The Brothers of Karmosov”. These are the insights I got after reading the work of Fodor Dovtyosky about human nature & also these are the things I have observed in my real life too. If you haven’t read my last 2 posts, I highly encourage you to check them out first, even though it’s not a chronological series. Also, guys, here is one request: don’t just read it for the sake of reading. Pause for a moment while you are reading. let it sink in. feel…
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Human Behaviour Lesson from reading Dostoevsky (Part 2)
Reading Time: 6 minutesIn the last article, I gave you the first part of this post. If you haven’t checked it, please check it out here. This is part 2 of the human behavior lesson from Dostoevsky. Humans are complicated & if you live in this world, no matter what you do, you gotta deal with humans. So I believe knowing them & their motivation helps to reduce chaos in your life, even though you will never be able to predict it totally as Saposky has said in his human behavioural biology class at Stanford. For instance – Raskolnikov kills for an idea, not money — then is torn apart…
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Human Behaviour Lesson from reading Dostoevsky (Part 1)
Reading Time: 6 minutesHi guys, today I am gonna share with you some of the insights about human behaviour which I got after reading Dostoevsky. If you have or haven’t read Dostoevsky, it doesn’t matter; this article is for everybody. For those of you who don’t know him (seriously, guys, what’s wrong with you ! ) He is a Russian novelist, philosopher, and journalist, widely regarded in the 18th century & as one of the greatest literary figures in world history. His works delve deep into human psychology, morality, suffering, faith, and existential crisis, making him a key figure in both literature and philosophy. I got to know him in…
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12 Things change when became parents
Reading Time: 6 minutesThe moment you think about planning for a baby, your thinking changes immediately. Suddenly you start thinking for the long term or put it more simply, you started thinking & seeing the big picture. Likewise, after becoming parents The sleepless nights, endless diaper changes, and continuous feedings turn your life upside down. But what might be more surprising to you is that, with time, you’ll no longer mind. The best part about being a parent is that you naturally becoming willing to give up so much for such a little and sometimes demanding noting. So here are the things which change after becoming a parent. 1.You…
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15 Japanese parenting tips for every parent
Reading Time: 6 minutesThere are social types of nurturing that are universal, like love, care, kindness, etc. However, in some cultures, they have some other tricks to bring up their child. For instance, Jewish people from a very young age they taught about money, religion, investment all the things, according to Business Insider. In Italy, children are allowed to have a little bit of wine with their parents. In India, children are heavily trained to do some extracurricular activities along with formal education. Like, cricket, singing, dancing, art, etc. In the same way, if you spin the globe in the east, you will stumble upon an island like no other,…













